Vegan Speed Dating
[Editor's Note: The following is a guest post from friend of vegaroo, Zarah, about her experience with the Vegan Speed Dating event at this weekend's Cruelty Free Festival. We'll have more event highlights coming soon!]
So you have a great boyfriend. He’s really good at fixing things, he cooks you yummy vegan meals all the time, and he has a pretty impressive beard. But then he dumps you. He’s not so great anymore. (Oh and he still eats cheese, yes that definitely removes him from the category of ‘greatness’).
Finding yourself suddenly single after a long stint of monogamous relations is pretty rough for most people. It can be hard re-entering the comparatively unstable and confronting world of dating. But when that world is reduced dramatically by your preference for a likeminded vegan partner, you’ve got yourself quite a challenge on your hands.
Thank goodness for the first appearance of Vegan Speed Dating at the 2010 Sydney Cruelty Free Festival!!! This could be quite fun. However you have noticed that vegan females seem to do a pretty good job at outnumbering vegan males and suspect that this may be the case in this scenario. You’re not wrong. The ratio is definitely not in your favour; your side is outnumbering the other by about three to one. An announcement is made on the main stage in front of a crowd of hundreds in the hope of attracting some more gentlemen to the mix. Come on men, there’s an abundance of single women by the rotunda, get over there! At one point it seems there are more people gathered to observe the spectacle than to participate in it. People even come to take photos to capture your desperation (thank you Matt).
As one male speed dater put it “there’s an imbalance of resources”. Single vegan men are indeed a resource. (However if the turnout for the later same sex session was any indication, you should be thankful you are not here to find a same-sex vegan dating partner.)
So we’re underway, with a total of 5 eligible vegan men on offer, but wait, there’s a late entry, taking the total to 6! (You later discover a third of them are not really vegan.) You do feel for them, all this attention, an inundation of eager ladies, having to answer “how long have you been vegan?” twenty times over. No wonder one guy makes an early exit (he “has to be somewhere” he explains).
There is definitely more to uncover about people than the three minutes allows. Hmm and you sense a reluctance on the ladies’ part to stick to the time limit and move onto the next gentleman when time’s up. Not one to muck around, you’ve got a date lined up this week with a renegade contender who didn’t want to play by the “we’ll email you your matches” rule. Success story maybe, let’s see if we can cut it on a ‘real’ date where we can’t conveniently just get up and move to the right when we’ve got nothing left to say to one another.
I have to admit, I thoroughly enjoyed the addition of speed dating at this year’s Cruelty Free Festival (it didn’t quite top Suzy Spoon’s cooking demo, but it was definitely up there!) Making superficial judgements about potential dates in a short period of time and being left wondering what else there is beneath the surface does have a weird attraction about it. Short of waiting a year for the opportunity to try my luck again at the next CFF, I think I might sneak into the realm of ‘non-vegan specific’ speed dating. We don’t all start out as vegans, right?
(Thank you to Sarah and Animal Liberation for once again putting on a super awesome festival, and for Sundara and Co for making the trek up from Canberra to introduce Sydney’s vegans to speed dating!)





